The Bigger Person Loses.

And gives up.

The title might sound a little familiar, somehow sounds like the popular TV show that we all know and love, but no, it's not the kind of topic I'm about to bring up!
You probably don't really get the idea that I'm about to put across, so let me explain how it works :)

Remember that-- in any argument you're being involved in, or any decision you're about to take, keep in mind that there is always someone; somewhere, who disagrees. That's why there's always two sides in everything, there's pros & cons, there's left & right, there's north & south, there's Romeo & Juliet... Wait, what are we talking about again? Oh, right, people disagreeing. Right.
Maybe Romeo & Juliet don't really have anything to do with it. Before I start to wander off this topic & forget what I really want to write, I better get back to the topic ;)

No matter how right or correct you think the path you're taking is, there's always someone who criticize you, and that's okay, people always have different opinions, I'm not saying that you have to agree to anything people say, but what matters is how you handle the disagreement being held against you. If someone disagrees but you think that person's incorrect, walk away, don't let 'em get into you, 'cause in life there's always going to be people right in your face trying to get the best of you, don't, I repeat-- DO NOT let that happen to you. Trust me, when you try your best to always please people by changing standards or by chickening out, or by not standing up for what you really believe in, it will eat you up alive! You'll always be unsatisfied, and that's not even the worst part! The fact is, if you always listen to what people want you to do or how you should become, you'll never get the chance to be who you want to be! But consider the comments first, if it's good feedback that you might need to make you a better person, receive it with an open mind :)

The truth is the bigger person loses and give up his right to be angry when someone disagrees, the bigger person knows better than losing his temper for someone who gets in his face. So, really, nice guys don't finish last. Nice guys finish before the race even started :)




Keep the Faith
XOXOX

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"Keep on keeping on"

Someone said that to me and it's been popping out of my head, being a constant reminder for my brain, guess it has been my conscious for the past, say-- two or three weeks? Yes, I have been hanging on a thread lately, could have slip and fall in a split of a second. But, I have to admit, I feel like I'm the luckiest person alive, to be given different & wonderful opportunities :) I know it makes me grow just a little bit faster than most teenagers, but it's alright to know a little too much than a little less than others, right? :)

And since it's the month of giving, I want to give credits to my older brother who has always been there for me, I have to admit that I'm forever grateful that I'm not an only child, and having the person who has been the one who's both a crack in the head and pain in my ass (I mean it in the most positive way possible ;) ) . I'm thankful that he's one of the few people who believed in my dreams, who encouraged me and know my every struggle. So if there's any guy in my future, he'd be my third boyfriend, 'cause my first is Dad, and the second is my brother! (and I say that in the least icky yucky way!!) I know we fight a lot and there are times where I feel like I wanna strangle him in the neck or push him over a cliff or something, but as much as I hate to admit this, I love my brother :) We've waaay past the fighting over "who's getting the last piece of snack" or "who's sitting where in the car" because we grew up together and we know each other so well now that we're not even going to make an effort to even fight over small stuffs :D One of the many reasons why I'm close to my brother is that our age difference is not that far, so we have the same taste in movies, and music, and all those stuffs :) I tell my brother everrrything. Recently I even made a trivia about myself when I was bored and he got the perfect score, it's pretty creepy, I know, but I'm thankful that he knows me so well :p He even gets so nosy about guys that I like or vice versa, I get to 'select' who gets to be his girlfriend :p Although most of the girls that he like are also my friends, he said it's one of the many benefits of having a younger sister :p

Oh well I better stop before any of you people start to leave and grab yourselves a bucket to puke :) I'm outie :)

Keep the faith
XOXOX

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LAST.

I may not be crowned 'best blogger of the year' because of my lack of updates, but trust me, I have a very VERY good reason (or should I say 'excuse' *cough cough*) for it. Just giving a quickie update here :) I haven't opened all my web stuffs in a while and it's always surprising to see the 'feedback' some people gave me. Like saying the F word on my previous post, regarding the copycat thing I wrote. The thing is, IF that isn't true, then why be mad about it, right? And keep it PG-13 please. Say your curses some place else ;)

So many new and upcoming movies on my list! But I don't have time to go to the movies, so saaad :( And it's December already! It's sooooo friggin ridiculous! And in a very happy tone, that is :) I'm so looking forward for these few weeks ahead :) Ahhh, miracles on Christmas, what could be better, right? :)

And I'm considering the many options to change my look. Since I'll be turning 18 next year I'm thinking about getting a little extreme and maybe push the envelope a little bit. What do you think? ;) That is all for now, I'm outie :)



KEEP THE FAITH
XOXOX

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