Journal To Survival #2- The 'C' Word

Recent Song On Play: Love Love Love- Hope feat. Jason Mraz

Yes, it's that time of the week again. We have come to our second lesson in our journey to moving on. Oh, trust me... You don't have to experience a broken heart to hate this one. My friend, I believe it is something we deal every day, whether we like it or not. It is both a blessing and a curse. It will happen whether you've been good or bad. But on the contrary, it will happen even when we pray our blood cells out that it won't happen to us.

Changes. I've warned you, we surely dread this one. From deleting pictures off our phones, text messages, every memory they left behind. It may appear to be a simple matter, but so help me God... It is a tough one. People easily advise us to just throw away whatever things that might make it harder, but the thing is, those things are a reminder that you were very happy once. With someone you dearly love. But yes of course, to make things easier, you have to get it over with, it will be less painful in time.

Especially with not seeing them as often as you used to. Something that is a monthly, weekly, or even daily basis. When you share routines with them, it gets even harder to remove it out of your system. Erasing a habit is as hard as creating one. All you need to do is just keep doing it, over and over, until you're used to it. That is why we never stopped loving someone, we just learn to live without them.

Sometimes you deny the fact that he's gone from your life, wishing that he would magically appear on your mobile phone, or say 'Hi' on BBM, but no... He won't. Get yourself some reality check and see that things have definitely changed. See the beauty of changes, it makes you a better person. Someone stronger, a lot more independent.

Now you have time to do things that you might haven't had time for. Maybe your interests might come back and even grow, now that you don't spend too much time worrying about love. Don't give up just yet. There's still hope somewhere. The only way love will find you is when you stop looking. Get used to changes, it might take you to a place you have never imagined. Trust me, I've been there.

keep the faith

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